Jim Valvano once said, “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person: he believed in me.” In my eyes, this artistic quote relates to my dad’s and my relationship. Although I don’t see him that frequently, I realize that he will always be there for me, watching over me. My dad works all day from two in the morning to three at night. This is great deal of work for someone who has troubles with his back, hips, and legs. At the mere age of ten, my dad got his leg caught in a power take off (a fast spinning machine at the back of a tractor). To this day my father has had thirty-four surgeries, and walks with a limp. Even though I don't see my dad that often, I still have a great relationship and have learned to cope with not seeing him.
      At two years old, my dad quit his job because of me. I barely knew the fatherly figure in my life. To this day I often write notes to put in his lunchbox, letting him know what is happening in my life. He may be going through some rough times with his health, but I have faith that he can pull through. My dad has never given up on me and knows I can do whatever I put my mind to. Although he has very high standards, I never fail to meet them. My father mostly spends his free time watching over his kids or driving them to practices/games. Whenever I look up into the bleachers and see his smiling face, it makes my day. I talk to him in the car whenever we are driving to a sporting event or a horse show. I know that he is always willing to talk, and I love that about him. We are always able to find time together, even when I am many miles away.
     One of the hardest things in my life is missing a guardian I need. As I become a young adult, I realize that lots of my friends parents are divorced. I feel so lucky that my parents are still together. I love my dad more than anything, so I would hate for our relationship to be broken. Throughout my life, my dad has worked crazy hours and doesn't get much sleep. When ever he does have time off he is always doing something for the family. I miss him so much when I go to school, because I know that he will want to sleep when I get home. Whenever I need help with homework, I have to allow my older brother to help (which is not always the best idea). I know that all of us are meant to achieve something throughout our lives, and my dad's accomplishment is having a daughter.
      I have found ways through my life to bond with him even though I don’t see him that often. I write him notes or schedule time on his calendar just for us. I has been hard on me because I don't get to spend quality time with him. I know in my mind that him working so much, is for the best. If he were by my side my whole life, the bills would never get paid. I understand now more than ever, he will always be here for me no matter what.  I love my dad so much and I need to realize that he will always be there for me mentally and physically.
     My relationship with my father has always been strong, but I don't see him that often. Over the years, I have overcame not seeing my dad by mentally overcoming not seeing him. I have found a good relationship with my uncle who is always willing to talk. I now know that my dad loves me and will do anything for me. My life has been changed so much, and I always have had an unbreakable relationship with my dad.