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Loneliness

June 6, 2016
By Anonymous

Imagine this: I know this that people in middle school start to feel loneliness because it hard to make friend sometime.when you try to make friend with someone and they ignore you how do you feel about that ? Do you feel like people don’t care?. Well for me i know that it hard sometime to make friend in middle school to highschool it might took you long period of time to make friend that like what you do. So for me i feel insecure sometime. Ok let me tell you this when you are alone that doesn’t you are lonely well sometime you might feel lonely when you are alone, but for me it not lonely, lonely is like when you shy to make a friend or you scared to talk to the person that you want to be friend with.  Here some tips for how you can ignore lonely ness first off don’t hang out with a friend that can make you feel lonely, hang out with someone that make you feel happy can get rid of your lonely make friend that you can feel safe when you are around, make friend that make your feel great. Don’t be that person who alway try to get everyone into trouble, lonely. When you transfer to another school and you don’t know anyone in it you might be feeling lonely because you have no friend and no one to talk to. (how to get rid of loneliness) Some people may point to fabulous fame and fortune. (10 fact about lonely) You could have people around you throughout the day or even be in a lifelong marriage, and still experience a deep, pervasive loneliness. Unsurprisingly, isolation can have a serious detrimental effect on one's mental and physical health.  Usually, loneliness is fleeting and circumstantial. We’re sitting around feeling all alone in this world and then a friend calls, we go out and have a fun time, and the loneliness go away.

When you are feeling lonely, it is because something has triggered a memory of that feeling, not because you are in fact, isolated and alone. The brain is designed to pay attention to pain and danger, and that includes painful scary feelings; therefore loneliness gets our attention. Sometime when you hang out with your friend you can still feels lonely, it because your friend are busy talking to other person and completely ignore you that is when you feel lonely also. Find someone that you trust, that understand you, keep you from lonely, so you won’t be feeling lonely because their someone who alway make you smile.

The causes of loneliness include social, mental, emotional, and spiritual factors. People experience loneliness for many reasons and life events can cause it, such as the lack of friendships built during childhood. It is also common in a break-up, divorce or any loss of an important long-term relationship.



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